
Something just as vital to our peaceful relationship with weight, health, nervous system health and internal felt sense safety is our relationship with movement, or exercise, as many label it.
Does exercise seems like one of those “best life ever” goals I see from the IG influencers?

We don’t often hear about this directly in non-diet circles because we don’t “need” movement for survival as we do food, but we do feel different when we are physically strong, vital, etc.
However, just like with food, if movement has as an experience of trauma, overwhelm or judgment and pride attached to it, the movement experience or even thinking about moving can make us quite avoidant to move or swing between mental obsession/compulsivity in action back to avoidance again. around exercise.
Do any of these phrases sound familiar?
- I haven’t found movement that is accessible or “good enough”.
- It was used as an assignment to get me or prompt me to improve health.
- I never got a chance to find an activity I enjoy.
- I feel I have to “love” movement.
- I don’t know what good enough is.
- I feel I have to “do it right.”
- It has to be intense to count.
- I have health issues or chronic pain.
- I’ve been shamed for my size or ability either as a child or an adult.
- My pattern is to exercise when I’m trying to lose weight.
- I don’t want to be seen moving in public.
- Sports, movements, or PE were never fun or even miserable.
- Body sensations feel too much when I move, possibly from past trauma.
- It’s all or nothing for me with exercise.
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If you’ve had enough of the mental patterns, comparing to others, fear of the struggle of sensations, sweating, turning red, doing it wrong, etc that cause movement avoidance, please join us: